This week I tried to find more time for myself  Honestly, I’m not sure how I used to work full time – and that was only 3 weeks ago.  My calendar seems to be full.  Monday was a trip to the surgeon and labs for Pauline.  Tuesday was a trip to the doctor with Cindy.  Today was an appointment with Social Security to get Edgar him onto disability.  Tomorrow is physical therapy for Pauline and then we’re going to the doctor to beg her to find why Pauline feels so sick.  After that I’m going to work with the Rabbi to work on honors for the High Holidays.  Friday I drop my car off at the station.

But I also have time booked for me.  Almost every night I take a 3-5 mile walk.  I love getting exercise outside in the fresh air.  I also get to smile or talk to people on the street.  If I’m lucky, I see some interesting things in the neighborhood.  For instance, the two pictures in this post was taken a couple of nights ago.  This guy had his friend paing his truck with these images.  I was very impressed.  The driver was happy to let  me take pictures of the side panels of his truck.

The Blogging Caregiver Takes a Break

Wednesday night is Mah Jong night.  There is very little I allow to interfere with Mah Jong.  Last night there was an extra treat.  My friend Marika brought her dog, Joey, to the game.  He sat on my lap and gave me lots of kisses.  He also told me which tiles to throw.  Unfortunately, they were exactly the ones that Marika needed.

Tomorrow night I’m going to dinner and drinks with a friend – after I make dinner for the family.  I think that’s a fair proposition.  Whenever we go out together, we spend most of the evening laughing and having a great time.  I can’t wait.

The walks, Mah Jong, and spending time with friends are great ideas for caregivers.  Everyone needs a break from taking care of someone else.  Both Pauline and Cindy encourage their caregivers to take time for themselves.  They know it is good to be able to rely on someone who feels refreshed.

And then there is the numbing of the mind.  I enjoy watching detective shows for an hour or so.  In the evenings Pauline and I often watch our favorite shows together.

But now it’s time to publish this post.  Good night everyone!